Wash, peel the ashgourd. Slice into 1 inch long equal sized batons
Boil them in a pot of Watee (about 2 cups) with a pinch of salt and the turmeric till they are 80% done
Drain and reserve the water
In a pan, dry roast the ingredients for the spice paste except the coconut
Cool and grind with the coconut and salt to a smooth paste adding 2-3 tsp of the reserved water.
Add this to the cooked veggies and simmer over a low flame.
Whisk the yogurt with the remaining reserved water and adding more water to make a thickish buttermilk - about 2 cups approx (don’t make it too runny)
Once the veggies are simmered with the masala paste, add the whisked buttermilk.
Simmer on low for 3-4 mins.
Turn off when you see a small bubble (else the buttermilk will split)
Prepare tadka / tempering with the oil , mustard , cumin seeds, Hing and add to the cooked curry
Serve immediately with steamed rice / lapsi/ cooked millet.
We love to eat the leftovers next day with some Arisi upma or upma kozhakattai( I make extra Majjige huli just for this)